How I Discovered The Most Ignored Skill of All
I had to figure it out alone.
Do you know the most crucial ability schools somehow neglect to impart?
Learning how to fail successfully!
I’m serious!
Although we get measured and graded in class on getting the “right” answers, teachers rarely explain the value of being utterly, miserably wrong.
Yet, making blunders can make you more innovative and more creative in the long run.
As kids, each new day brings fresh chances to trip up, bumble about, or royally mess things up.
But such faceplants teach balance and coordination. The same principle applies in life.
Every botched relationship or bombed job interview holds an important lesson. The trick lies in studying each crash to better prepare for takeoff again.
Fail Early and Fail Often
Are mistakes truly disasters or gifts in disguise?
Imagine if Thomas Edison had quit after botched #10,000 to perfect his lightbulb filament.
Or if JK Rowling had desisted writing after just a dozen publisher rejections. Smashing success depends on first amassing epic failures.
Bouncing back from goofs, setbacks, and shortfalls makes us more sturdy and determined.
With every blunder, our skin grows thicker.
We realize that failure won’t break us.
Much like with conditioning the body at the gym, the more we stress-test ourselves, the more durable we become.
We expand our coping repertoire each time we fall and get up again.
Failing Leads to Learning.
Errors provide invaluable clues for what not to do next time. Feedback from flops helps us course-correct.
Every Nobel Prize winner stands on the shoulders of botched trials that came before.
Thomas Edison famously remarked, “I haven’t failed 10,000 times — I’ve successfully found 10,000 ways that will not work.”
Each less-than-perfect attempt brings science closer to ultimate success.
Develop Beginner’s Mindset.
In Zen philosophy, “shoshin” or “beginner’s mind” involves remaining open and eager to learn.
It means embracing each new day with curiosity rather than preconceived notions that close us off.
To foster innovation, we must cherish the innocent wonderment of a child discovering ideas instead of clinging to old paradigms.
A beginner’s mindset preserves our ability to question profoundly and see solutions that experts may overlook.
Cultivate Curiosity.
Curiosity not only makes life more exciting but also fuels problem-solving.
We unravel greater meaning by probing below the surface and querying, “Why?”.
Pursuing passions and interests widely outside our lane sparks fresh neural connections. You never know what parallels exist to inspire creative hybrid solutions across diverse disciplines.
Explore Widely.
Venture beyond narrow domains of expertise into unfamiliar terrain.
Cross-training the mind breaks ingrained thought patterns to enable out-of-the-box ideation.
Connecting disparate dots begets innovation. For instance, modeling AI on human cognition or applying physics principles to economic theories bears fruit.
Wandering widely pollinates mental fertilization!
Practice Systems Thinking.
Increasingly, solving complex problems requires viewing issues as interconnected parts rather than isolated events.
Here is an article from Leyla Acaroglu that is worth reading - Tools for Systems Thinkers: The 6 Fundamental Concepts of Systems Thinking
No single discipline or dynamic operates in a vacuum without influencing other elements. Systems thinking is underpinned by an interdisciplinary mindset.
Take COVID, climate change, or mental health. These urgent crises span healthcare, economics, ecology, transportation, etc.
Holistic reasoning wrestles such slippery worms!
And, Finally…
Failing fast frequently builds resilience so we can bounce back stronger.
So next time you flub, flap, or flop, see it as one step closer to success!
This is true! Let's get immune to failing. It is synonymous to learning
So True, today's youth are not being taught how to fail, lose or be told no to something. Setting these people up for future failure.
Nuce article :)